Nov 2

I’ve been listening to all the Brad P. CDs, interviews, etc. and one recurring theme has been to take up leadership roles. I had a discussion with Driver on our way to DC and he said the same thing. I think the universe is trying to tell me something.

So I decided to focus more on coaching other guys than on my own game. Today I took out a 30/30 member and just coached him the whole time. It was interesting breaking down his game, explaining what adjustments he should make, and doing demos for him. I didn’t do much cold approach with him, but that’s okay. His progress was pretty good!

After he left, I ran into Train Girl at the Whole Foods. Weird. Just like our last meeting, she would say “you’re crazy” every time I suggested anything sexual between us, was never compliant, and led a lot. I talked to her about the rally, and she just didn’t get Stephen Colbert. At that point I lost all respect for her. We were at the Standard Hotel bar. I didn’t see anything I liked, I was in a low state, she was nowhere to be found, and I was hungry. Fuck it, I ditched her.

Went and got some halal food. Yum. She called and texted me a few times. I texted her back, “I got kidnapped”.

After I finished my food, I was still in a low state, but I knew I was close to Plunge and should at least check it out. So in I went, fighting my inner pussy.

At Plunge, I realized how calm I was. I wasn’t in a bad mood, nor antisocial, just calm. I was probably still in state because of teaching and demoing and I wasn’t drinking, which made everything seem to happen a lot slower.

Still, I knew I needed to boost my state so I started chatting with some dude next to me. Then I saw a chick give me the eye a few times, but I wanted to warm up some more before I approached her so I approached two chicks right in front of me instead. Our conversation wound up taking about 20 minutes. This drunk guy invaded in the middle of our conversation with super high energy, but I didn’t mind because he acted as a temporary wingman. He eventually blew himself out and I had to deal with the two chicks by myself again. I wasn’t really throwing any super high impact material, but one of the chicks, a Canadian Cougar, was getting more and more interested in me. Logistics I knew were fucked, so I just took her number.

In order to save on train fare I had to leave after that approach. It was a long one, but I think the number’s pretty solid. We shall see.

After just an afternoon of coaching, I felt different. I didn’t take any shit from Train Girl, which I might have normally. It feels good to not only have a positive impact on someone’s life, but to improve myself.