“Can you open these?” Insomnia, persistence I Mastered two locks
“Can you open these?”
Insomnia, persistence
I Mastered two locks
“Can you open these?”
Insomnia, persistence
I Mastered two locks
I am a man of extremes. I picked up girls every single day for several months. I change my look every few months, going from computer geek to punk rocker to hippie to island safari guy. I went from being an awkward, shy, scared introvert to an extreme asshole. Kinda like Tucker Max, but without my own book.
I don’t do this because I’m an adrenaline junkie, I do it to face my fears and grow as a person. When I try things incrementally, I hit roadblocks early on and it gives me a false sense of limitation. But when I go to the extreme, expecting 100% failure, I more often than not hit success. For example, I’ve been walking barefoot for the past month and a half. I felt fear walking into each store, but I knew that the worst that could happen was they’d ask me to leave. More likely, they’ll ask me to put on my shoes, which I had on with me anyway. Knowing it’s irrational, I faced my fear and did it anyway. To date, I’ve been asked to put on my shoes twice. Never been arrested, never stepped on a nail and gotten AIDS. I’ve even been to dinner with friends at Ruth’s Chris barefoot.
I do the same thing every time I feel fear. If the worst case scenarios are not too bad (getting kicked out of a store, being looked at funny), I do it. This is especially relevant for social situations, since the worst case scenario is usually “the girl stops talking to me”.
Of course, extreme behavior won’t be successful all the time. When my extreme behavior starts getting negative results, I pull back and find that sweet spot in the middle.
With the extreme approach, I can find the sweet spot quickly, whereas with the incremental approach I never quite get past the first bump on the road. Try it out!
The bar camp across the street was having a party, so we went. I was a little drunk and stoned, but I stumbled my way to the dance floor. Note: I don’t have any dance floor moves. Brad just taught me to move to the music and to dominate the girl on the dance floor by spinning, dipping, or spanking the girl. I then pull them off the dance floor and run my normal game.
I saw a Persian chick give me the look. We danced a little, I spun her around, we kissed. I pulled her across the street, showing her my camp, then pulled her to my tent. At my tent she showed resistance so I brought her back to the bar.
I saw a short Mexican chick give me the look. We danced a little, I spun her around, we kissed. I pulled her across the street, showed her my camp, then pulled her to my tent. Once in my tent I fingered her until she was moaning. She’s ready! I told her her clothes were in the way. We raced to get naked first. I fucked her for a while, but I had trouble cumming. I pulled off the condom, pulled her head down, and she sucked me for a good 20 minutes until she swallowed my load. We cuddled for a few minutes, but then she says she still wants to dance and leaves.
Lessons learned:
- Take advantage of “the look”. When girls are checking you out, things are way easier. 2 out of 2 approaches I was able to bring girls back to my tent, and I got laid on the second try.
- Escalate fast. Each pull was done within 10-15 minutes. There was no talking, it was pure physical attraction. The first girl was not down to fuck, the second one was. Find out fast and pull the trigger!