Poly Girl Lay

I’ve recently joined a polyamorous community. I hadn’t worked very hard on fucking anybody, mostly just learning the rules of the community and making friends.

This week a new girl was brought in. We connected about climbing trees, walking barefoot, yoga. I mostly shared my identity, tried to get her to talk about herself, and spent time together. She kept hanging out with me but she was shy. I didn’t get any positive feedback when touching her, but didn’t get much negative feedback so I assumed she was OK with it and continued. The one negative feedback I got was when we kissed, she would pull away after a few seconds.

The problem with poly communities is that competition is everywhere, yet it can be ignored. I found the bi chicks vying for her attention. Instead of competing I just joined the group.

A few days later she calls me out of the blue, to hang out. We meet up for lunch. We meet barefoot. She walks barefoot really fast. For some reason, since she is so shy, I found it very natural to lead the whole day. We eat Thai.

I tell her I need to return books to the library. She agrees and says in return we need to go to the Verizon store. Sure. The whole time we either hold hands or have our arms around each other. At the Verizon store she invites me for cake at her place. Ring a ding dong! I don’t make it so easy, asking her what kind of cake it is. After some convincing I agree.

We go to her place, have some cake. I start kissing and touching her, start to take off her top. She says, “Well if you’re going to take off my clothes I should shut the blinds.” I take off her clothes, take off my clothes, eat her out. I’m not really hard so I put her hand on my cock. She says she never really knows what to do with it, so I suggest that she suck on it. She doesn’t. Oh well, it’s hard from her just playing with it, so I put on a condom and fuck her.

After we fuck, her landlord comes in while we’re naked. We quickly get dressed. After the awkwardness I continue leading. We get food, watch a movie, and hang out the rest of the night.

Lessons learned:
- A neutral response is a positive response. Yes, I know this already, but she was so unresponsive I normally would have given up. But I correctly read that she was also shy, so I kept pushing.
- Leading is important. She didn’t know what to do, she’s just 19 and she’s shy. I paved the way to sex for her.