Cougar Event

Today was my first real cougar event! Haha, I easily stood out.

I met with a few cougars and cubs. We chatted a little, I easily entertained the ladies with my banter. I socialized a bit, dancing with random people, saying hi to others, dancing with a cougar.

I dance with a black chick, but she’s not getting physical with me at all so I abruptly walk away. Three girls are dancing with each other. I dance with them. It’s fun but I’m not attracted to any of them. Well, they provide social proof and state.

At one point a cougar asks me if I see anything I want and asks what type I’m looking for. So I tell her, tall, thin, blonde, white. I leave out “young”. Moments later, a tall thin blonde white chick shows up! Haha ask and you shall receive.

I dance on the dance floor by myself, but the tall blonde pulls me over. I start dancing with her, spinning, dipping, spanking, pulling her up close, biting her neck, kissing and pulling away. I try to isolate but there seems to be a language barrier and she wants to dance some more. Alright, I’ll just keep pumping her buying temp up.

The bar closes. She came by herself and mentions she wants to go to Hollywood, but I don’t pick up on the hint and suggest I drop her off at her place. We go to my car but for some reason she doesn’t get in. Then she sees friend after friend after friend on the parking lot.

One guy is a bouncer at a club and another is a cop-in-training. The bouncer guy, she tells me, wants to bang her, but she doesn’t want to. The cop-in-training takes up the role of being designated driver, and insists on getting her home instead of letting me take her home, because they’re best friends and she’s too drunk. He says that he’d rather her spend the night in jail than go home while drunk with some stranger, then asks me if one of my best friends were drunk, would I let her go home with some stranger, and that if I said yes, I would be an awful friend. (At this point I wanted to say, “Nice! Double bind!”) His frame is stronger than mine and after a long delay, I let him take her home.

During the car drive home I decided I should have said, “Look, she’s coming with me. That’s all.” If he were to call the cops, I was probably sober enough to do it. My most disappointing part was that she wanted to go home with me.

Overall a good night. I was clearly the hottest guy in the place. I had a ton of social proof while dancing with the girls, due to social freedom and being fun. I dominated the tall blonde while a shorter, younger hispanic chick stared me down and danced with some loser who didn’t have any moves at all. I wanted to fuck the hispanic chick, but never approached her because by the time I got the social proof the tall blonde seemed to be in the bag. If not for the cockblocks in the parking lot I would have fucked her. Once again proving that good things happen when I go out by myself and give myself enough time.

Next time I’ll have a stronger frame, pull the girl into the car immediately, and fuck her!