Day 92/360: Pickup Mansion Workshop 4 Day 3, BBQ, Concert, Night Game

Be genuine.

Cold reads: try to make real observations, not just general statements that work for everyone.

Read How to Win Friends and Influence People. Go out, meet people, leave only when I know their life story. Establish commonalities. Will bring her into your world, makes comfort happen. Brings identity into game. Empathetic listening: last three words of sentence, repeat. “I was in Chicago, went white water rafting” “Once I went out and went white water rafting.”

Charisma: someone who meets someone, tries to find out about them, connects.

Spread myself out more. Low tonality. Bob Corff CD – Standard American Dialect. Stop gesturing – only kino.

Imagine fucking girls, cumming on her face, et cetera to girls you’re talking to.

Empathetic listen until I find a detail. Then find a commonality. Tell a story to build commonality. Ask a question, build a tease “Ha, you’re not a crazy cat girl, are you?”

Went to a concert with Driver and Nomad.

Talked to two girls at concert, asking about who just played. Continued talking to Driver, they slowly drifted away.

Nomad pulls me in to talk with some girl, got some info about her.

Went out with Poker Face and Driver.

Place was completely dead. Driver opens the only group of girls, I wing him by talking to guy and girl. We talk for about an hour, building connections with the girl. She was really cool and interesting, well travelled. I didn’t escalate or use hard game, since I was winging and the boyfriend was right there, but I did my homework, getting to know her life story and occasionally remembering to not use my hands to talk and use a masculine tone.

We see a crowd of black chicks coming out of Sugar.

Horse girl to two black chicks, one with cool hair. Not her, she walks away to her car.

Horse girl to two black chicks sitting and waiting for their ride. Talk with black chick for twenty minutes, she wants to be a nurse. I don’t think I shared much info about myself, though.