Day 31/360: Early Morning Flake then Solo on Dead Night

Hell girl was supposed to meet me this morning at 11 a.m., so I set my alarm for 10:30, so my body felt like it was waking up at 9:30 a.m. Keep in mind my normal waking hour is 2 p.m.

10:30 I texted her and fell back asleep.

2:00 p.m. I called her. No response.

I went about my day, recruiting new victims into the raw vegan cult. Tasty but expensive work. Alas, Mr. S loves cooked food too much.

The time change and early flake took its toll on me. I passed out until 10:30.

I woke up and wasted some time. Finally I got out the door at midnight.

Walked around the neighborhood. I passed by the drummer from approach #22. We looked into each others’ eyes, I said “Hi” and touched her shoulder as I passed her. I should have stayed in, but I was on the phone. Creative avoidance rocks!

Walked back to the house. Drove to the bar area. Creatively avoided everything.

Drove back to the house. Determined not to end the night without even a single approach, I walked around the neighborhood again.

37. C>5: I saw a girl taking a smoke break outside a porn shop. With authoritativeness to the point of being pissed off, I did sex last week. Not her. I demanded her name. Got it, but did not run cat routine. Smart test, smart/hot/rich, 8 girlfriends. She can’t be my girlfriend, or anyone else’s, she’s gay and just got out of a bad relationship. We talked about traveling, snowboarding, my raw vegan diet, music. She was closing up, moving tables and chairs indoor. I followed her around to continue the conversation, but in retrospect that made me seem needy. I started the yes ladder, “You know, it was cool talking to you. We should have tea sometime.” She controlled the frame and said, “Yeah, we have tea, coffee, smoothies, all kinds of drinks,” and continued on and on. I complimented that she’s a good salesperson. Things were awkward with her coworker waiting for her at the door to lug the table in, so I said bye and left.

I did not eject, though I could have done more approaches. The major thing I did tonight was to remember to be authoritative. I realize that I have not been authoritative enough, so I went to the other extreme and was authoritative to the point of being pissed off, and it worked. It also helped me control the frame and not eject.

C>5: 1