Day 30/360: Rooftop Bar

26. C<5: The promoter took us to a rooftop bar tonight. He asked us to get some girls to improve the ratio. I saw four girls, just used weak situational stuff, got weak feedback of course.

27. C<5: I saw three girls, horse girl, did not like it, eject. Ugh.

Later Dylan grabbed the three girls into our group. The promoter told them to say they’re on his list. Their response to the guy getting them in: “But I’m not on your list.” *sigh* It makes me angry that there are such dumb people in the world.

28. C<5: Up at the roof. Saw a girl standing by herself, sex last week. Spanish routine, didn't get an awesome response. I think I'm going to stick this near the end of the stack, it doesn't generate much attraction. Got her name, but too nervous. Ejected.

29. B: Another girl standing by herself, sex last week. She smiled and said it wasn’t her then walked away.

30. C>5: Two girls sitting on a couch, sex last week, smart tests, smart/hot/rich. She wasn’t smart, hot, and rich, but she had an awesome personality according to her. I told her, “Okay, you have three seconds to win me over. Go.” Her response was, “Well you walked over here, I don’t have to win you over.” I did cold reads, “Is she always this feisty?” They loved it. I didn’t interact with the friend too much, so I tried to pull her in by cold reading her: “You’re so quiet, are you having a text war? You seem to be staring so intensely into your phone.” Two of their friends came over. I entertained them all for a few more minutes, then I was done. Brain fart. I just stood there as the girl said a few times, “I need a drink,” but I refused to walk away and I refused to reposition myself to let them walk by. Eventually they walked around me. The addition of two more girls overwhelmed me. In my mind, I knew I should have done something, anything, but nope. Nothing came out.

31. C>5 P: I chatted with one of the girls who came in with us, if anything for social proof. I wasn’t sure if she were the promoter’s girl, so I didn’t game her hard at first. As I got to know her I realized she wasn’t, so I touched her more. We were talking very platonic things. I tried running smart tests on her, but she didn’t like it, saying there’s all kinds of intelligence. She blabbed on for a few minutes, until finally she jumped through my hoop and said, “16″. I did only “smart” out of smart/hot/rich. I think I was intimidated because she was a model and well traveled. I mentioned snowboarding and how we need to go sometime, she immediately took my number. Bleh, very platonic. Eventually what little attraction I had was fizzled, and I lost her. I also figured out the logistics: she was a floater, having driven by herself here. Too bad I physically lost her. She was nowhere to be found for the rest of the night.

I did absolutely nothing for a while.

Apparently there was a dance club in the basement. We went to check it out.

32. C<5: Saw two Asians getting drinks. Sex last week, sorry, not them. Did not follow up with anything, eject.

33. B: Saw a white chick standing near a table of Asians. Sex last week, disgusted.

We went back upstairs. Too loud, too many Asians.

34. C<5: Saw a girl sitting in a tiny booth by herself, with bottle service. Sat in what little space she had left, horse girl. She called me out on the it, but I held my frame and continued until she forgave me. Smart tests. She said several times that her boyfriend would be back, he paid for all the bottle service and blahblahblah. She seemed very stern about it the last time, so I very sternly said, "Okay. I understand. It was nice chatting with you." We exchanged names, shook hands, and I left.

35. C<5: Two girls tried to walk by me, one poked me on the chest with her cell, then apologized. I grabbed her hand and sternly said, "That is not okay." Turned to her friend, put my arm around her, "Is she always this abusive?" Laughed a little, then sex last week to her friend. They laughed, but walked away.

36. B: Saw two girls walking down the street. Horse girl, but the other girl already heard it. “Okay, I’ve got another one.” Sex last week, fumbled. The light changed, they walked away laughing.

It’s weird. I get it into my head that I will never see any of these people ever again, unless I pull a girl, so I start approaching with no fear. Then after two or three approaches in a row, I feel complacent and stop, so my state doesn’t go through the roof. I still worry about what others think of me when I approach, which is not good. But I insisted on doing sex last week, which proved to me that it works well, I just need to hold my frame and follow through with it.

Ejection is still a glaring issue.

Cool night, though. We went to a new place, which had a very nice ratio for about two hours. The girls were not all super hot, but the bar was definitely raised.

B: 3
C<5: 6
C>5: 2
P: 1