Day 16/360: Dive Bars

Only Nomad was around, and we seem to be the ones who like to go early, so we went together tonight. Opened a bunch of sets, nothing really stuck.

Saw an Asian looking girl give me the eye earlier. Wussed out for about five minutes, then I went into their group with three girls and two guys. Horse girl, she already heard it. I know, I continued. Once I was done, the girl turned her back to me. I ran smart tests on her friend, but a third girl answered the question. So I continued with the third girl, until eventually they were all disinterested. So I turned my back to them.

I saw a hot blonde and a brunette earlier, but they seemed out of reach at the time. I saw them playing with the jukebox, so I went in. Horse girl, smart tests, smart/hot/rich, 8 girlfriends. She loves it, thinks I’m hilarious. We shared identity stories, I got her number. I tried to be friends with the friend, but I’m not sure how well that went. She said she’s leaving next week so I said we should definitely meet up before then. I tried to stick with her, AMOGing guys who tried to talk to her, except I couldn’t do it on the dance floor. I need to be more dominant and leading on the dance floor, and work on my physical comfort in general. Eventually they left the bar. We left a few minutes after they did, and saw them talking to two dudes. I went right in, hugged her, turned her toward me, but the guys immediately turned her back toward them and introduced them as being married. I was out gamed, haha. Oh well. Hugged her and left.

Nomad pointed out three girls dancing by the couch, horse girl. Probably ran my standard stack. At some point the girl told me her boyfriend’s over here. I said they looked cute, how long have they been together. 1.5 years. I shook hands with the supposed boyfriend. He put his arm around her. Meh, whatever.

Went to another bar. Saw four girls and a guy, with one girl kinda isolated. Horse girl, smart tests. She doesn’t comply so I do the whatever song. She doesn’t believe what just happened, went back to the group.

Saw a hot girl getting out of her SUV for the valet. Horse girl, she had to cross the street but was very polite about it. I crossed with her, finished horse girl. Hugged but she left nearly immediately afterward. I should have continued with my stack, I only had half a second.

Saw two girls waiting for the valet, horse girl. They didn’t like it, kept trying to change the subject, I kept coming back. They won the frame battle but it was good practice for me.

Saw two girls walking down the street, horse girl, no, she doesn’t like them, walked past me.

Saw four girls walking down the street, do you like horses, no she likes something else, walks past me.

We went to another bar. Nomad started talking to two girls, I was waiting to wing him. Then I saw two girls to my right, horse girl, tried to pull the friend in but she was not paying attention so I just worked on my girl. Smart tests, smart/hot/rich. She said something like, does this actually work, I said yeah and kept going. Eventually she said she wanted to introduce me to her friends, who were smart/hot/rich, because she had a boyfriend. I figured, meeting new girls would be better than standing around, so why not?

Met one girl, chatted normal stuff, got her number. My tour guide routine “You from here? Okay, you’re my new tour guide. Take me to all the hot spots. But don’t take me to a cemetery and expect me to have sex with you.”, she starts explaining that there’s a cool party at a cemetery.

Moved onto next girl, chatted normal stuff, got her number.

Moved onto next girl, AMOGed the guy she was chatting with just by having more interesting conversation. She introduced me to her taller, hotter friend.

Chatted with taller, hotter friend. We were guessing nationalities. I guessed the tall, blonde white girl was Korean, then followed up with, “You Asians all look the same.” She play slapped me on the face, so I real slapped her on the ass. I called her a bad girl, she said she’s not that bad, I said this relationship is getting to a rocky start. Her friend came in, was upset at something. Nomad winged me for a bit. Exchanged names, cat routine, smart tests, smart/hot/rich. She asked where this conversation was going, I said wherever it takes us, she said it’s going nowhere and left. I think I got off to a good start earlier, but should have kept amping up the physical interaction.

I think I’ve gotten less authoritative the past few days. At one point I asked a girl if she were smart, she laughed at the question. Then I caught myself, became super serious, and asked her again. She immediately said yes, and jumped through my hoop. Now I just have to do this every time I go out.

Opening girls has become very routine for me. Which means that my mind is now free to focus on other things, like my voice tone, my body languages, my physical escalation. I have not been very good at learning new routines however.