Avoiding cursing

Why do people think it’s so horrible to curse? It doesn’t make anybody any less civilized, it’s not a mortal sin, it doesn’t kill anybody. I try not to curse because I find that cursing distracts the text from what it’s trying to say, but sometimes, it’s just necessary.

I hate it when people try to avoid cursing by simply replacing the words and/or letters. I’ve had friends who completely replace the word “fuck” with “fudge”, and they go on cursing, only they give themselves an accent. “Shut the fudge up,” they shout. Others try to say fck, sht, or even h*ck. (Honestly, I don’t see anything wrong with saying heck, but I guess that’s just me.) Still others just use the letter, saying, “Life’s a B,” etc.

To me, all that is as bad as cursing. You had the full intent of cursing, but you felt ashamed of doing so, or you felt that you were cheating the system by not indulging in such sins.

It’s like technical virgins. They suck cock, they fuck anally, they participate in orgies, they let guys ejaculate in their hands, in their asses, on their faces, and in their mouths, as they savor every drop. Yet they do not let a guy put their penis into her vagina. “No way, I’m no slut,” they say. “I’m saving myself for the right man.”

I’m not saying that people who do stuff like that are sluts. It’s okay to be a “slut”, especially if they’re a girl. Why should guys have all the fun and freedom? You have the power to entice, use it.

But being a borderline hypocrite by avoiding doing something just by a technicality is not the way to live life. Their whole ideal system is nothing but a sham, a lie. Just do it, or don’t do it. Don’t do it and fool yourself into thinking otherwise.